{"id":7689,"date":"2023-11-14T03:46:25","date_gmt":"2023-11-14T03:46:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/xenodochial-liskov.139-99-238-150.plesk.page\/?p=7689"},"modified":"2023-11-14T04:03:13","modified_gmt":"2023-11-14T04:03:13","slug":"how-to-support-someone-experiencing-domestic-violence","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/xenodochial-liskov.139-99-238-150.plesk.page\/?p=7689","title":{"rendered":"How to support someone experiencing domestic violence"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Experiencing domestic violence is never something you would wish on your loved ones. If you know if anyone struggling with domestic violence in a certain relationship, you may wonder how you can support them.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

It can be challenging to witness a friend or family member in an unhealthy relationship. Knowing how to assist them can be tricky. While you can’t magically fix everything, what you can do is offer support to make them feel less alone. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

After speaking to our own family law experts and conducting research on how best to help someone in an abusive relationship, we at Melmark Law have put together some advice you can follow.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, please call 000.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Create a safe space to talk<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Being a good listener can make a significant difference. Find a quiet, private place to check in and ask how they’re doing. Start the conversation gently after some casual chitchat. Survivors of abuse may find it hard to discuss their experiences due to embarrassment or shame. It’s important to make them feel at ease and avoid sounding judgmental. The family law experts at Melmark Law believe that it is crucial to listen without passing judgment and discuss different forms of domestic violence to raise awareness. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don’t pressure them to leave their current situation<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

While it is normal to want your loved one out of a dangerous situation, pushing them to leave can make things worse. This pressure may lead to feelings of shame, guilt, and inadequacy. Leaving an abusive relationship is complex, and survivors often face increased danger after leaving their abuser. We advise that you focus on supporting the survivor regardless of their decision, which can help them build more courage in themselves and their beliefs.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Offer continuous support<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Consistently check in on them, respecting their boundaries and comfort. Abusive partners may make it challenging for survivors to stay in touch with friends and family. Be patient and understanding if they’re not always responsive. Ask how you can help and suggest ways to support them, such as assisting with a safety plan or providing a safe place to stay if needed. Please do keep in mind that it isn\u2019t wise to share information in an obvious way, such as pamphlets or literature that the abuser might find. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you need support, you can contact these helplines: <\/h3>\n\n\n\n